tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1222186000472192475.post2436555324544083930..comments2023-09-25T03:51:15.327-05:00Comments on Living through today: Dreams, regret and the truth comes outLisaAnnehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06436140358037471855noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1222186000472192475.post-7318534703703383932011-08-11T08:41:29.534-05:002011-08-11T08:41:29.534-05:00I always love your very honest posts and feelings....I always love your very honest posts and feelings. I appreciate your story.<br /><br />I'm sorry that you feel like you have to apologize to adoptive parents about your own feelings. If they really understood grief, they'd know it wasn't about "adoptive parents." Adoption has a real big "sucky" side to it all. Just because it hurts for you doesn't mean that you're attacking them. I wish more adoptive parents wouldn't get so defensive.LeMirahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02196699524583350846noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1222186000472192475.post-86708170712540163622011-07-25T15:35:05.986-05:002011-07-25T15:35:05.986-05:00that must have been an incredibly hard truth to re...that must have been an incredibly hard truth to recognize and especially to think/write. we all have those things in life that we wish we could go back and change. this is such a huge one. it almost feels like a form of loss that deserves its own grieving process, but maybe even more difficult in some ways because you know she is out there. i really enjoy reading your blog and hope you find some peace.Rebahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16739267142330427759noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1222186000472192475.post-68940867729920600102011-07-23T18:05:26.839-05:002011-07-23T18:05:26.839-05:00And I want him to be my son... If only a mother c...And I want him to be my son... If only a mother considering adoption could read and FEEL these words you have written...<br /><br />Hugs to you ~Susiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15929169562563801608noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1222186000472192475.post-85578222960021231652011-07-23T08:16:14.993-05:002011-07-23T08:16:14.993-05:00I feel your words, it sucks. At least the part abo...I feel your words, it sucks. At least the part about wanting to change the decision you made. As time passes since relinquishment I am beginning to feel more and more like this. Except I feel like, what am I supposed to do now? If I were to say anything to anyone they still say "you made the right choice, it is over and done with...move on" and it just doesn't work like that. <br /><br />HugsAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1222186000472192475.post-83650563523943490152011-07-22T23:05:31.887-05:002011-07-22T23:05:31.887-05:00I found this.....and of course, anytime I read any...I found this.....and of course, anytime I read anything that about AP insecurities, yours immediately come to mind. I just wish they would get it.... http://adoption.families.com/blog/addressing-other-adoptive-mothers-insecuritiesWsbirthmomhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10729192930153750367noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1222186000472192475.post-91522064145471786402011-07-22T22:56:11.636-05:002011-07-22T22:56:11.636-05:00Oh Lisa.....
I am counting the days until we meet ...Oh Lisa.....<br />I am counting the days until we meet my dear friend. Hopefully, we will be able to, in some miniscule way, begin to heal the weeping, open wound that will heal and leave a nasty scar begind.<br /><br />Please know I think of you daily, and hope that they will one day show you at least of glimpse of compassion. I hope that their hearts will open one day, and invite you in. I hope that Brit will one day have you in her life, and that the piece of the puzzle that she will feel that is always missing will be put back into place. I hope...because if we stop hoping....what is left.....Wsbirthmomhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10729192930153750367noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1222186000472192475.post-38927722246636689962011-07-22T17:54:09.991-05:002011-07-22T17:54:09.991-05:00I wish you could take the decision back... I reall...I wish you could take the decision back... I really do. Have you been following the story of Peri and her famil(ies)? (APs promised more openness then they gave, BM says it's a type of fraud -- they deliberately misled her and she would never have made that decision had they not lied to her). Not that you would take her family to court, just thought you might be interested.<br /><br />Also -- you don't post about their monthly updates anymore. Did they ask you to stop?Jacintahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09814351889572936353noreply@blogger.com